A way someone dresses usually sends out a message to people. You can dress to attract attention of different kinds. Normally, people would dress in ways that sends messages they do not intend to send, for instance, sexual messages. You find someone walking around in a piece of clothing that can almost be termed as lingerie!
Dressing provocatively is certainly not wrong; but like all things, should be done at the right time in the right places. Otherwise, going around provoking every man out there can only end up in disasters.
However, I am not claiming that people should only wear clothes that cover from head to toe, unless of course one is required to do so by religion or culture. One can dress in such a way to appear smart, beautiful, captivating and still not send the wrong messages out there.
This is how:
This is how:
M Avoid putting everything out for show, leave some of it to the imagination. It is good to dress showing a little this or that. But minimal clothing that leave everything out for all to see normally appear a bit sl*tty! If you decide to show a little boob, then wear something long to cover the legs. If you show a little tummy, then cover the boobs and etc.
M Wear clothes that flatter your physique. If you have a good waist, wear clothes that display it. If you have beautiful legs, go for mini skirts and dresses. If you have nice boobs, do not feel shy to show a little cleavage.
M Wear timeless pieces. Not every trendy piece of clothing will look good on you. Besides, trendy pieces go out of style eventually while timeless pieces can be in for years, thus saving you the expense of buying everything that comes in style. You do not have to constantly follow the crowd.
M Dress for the occasion. It is a sad feeling to find someone wearing a little black number in an occasion where everyone else is dressed in white suits! If an occasion requires you to dress in a certain way, go for that look, lest people think of you negatively.
It is clear that dressing is a big part of non-verbal communication. We send different messages by the way we dress, so be careful how you dress in public.
