A man once said, “The reason I constantly keep cheating on my wife is the same reason you don’t take boiled rice everyday – it bores you.”
And I totally agree with him! How can one eat boiled rice (or any one type food, for that matter) forever, everyday? Inhuman! Our taste buds as human beings need a variety of tastes, and so do our sex lives.
It is all so easy, and very right. Rice, and any other food known to man, does not have to be eaten in only one form, because there is a variety of cooking.
All it takes is commitment, an adventurous spirit and a willingness to learn.
So let the journey begin – learning how to cook delicious (in the bedroom) by using the following tips:
Ø Realize what you have – look at your partner through other people’s eyes and realize the attractiveness they still hold. How do other men/women think she/he looks?
Ø Try to keep fit and look sexy for your partner. As years advance, some features on our bodies tend to be leaning more on the south towards gravity. Things don’t just look as good as they used to especially after some years of marriage and a couple of babies. So find time to heat up some fat in exercising. Also wear supportive clothes like corsets and bras that help breasts from sagging.
Ø Have fun. Look for new ways to have fun with your partner. Buy new board games, go out with friends, or even turn normal boring household chores (like cooking and cleaning) into fun activities you can do together. This brings couples closer and strengthens their intimacy.
Ø Learn new sex styles and positions that you can try out together, provided that they are comfortable for the both of you.
Ø Turn your bedroom into a sexy and fun place to be in. use beddings that feel good on naked skin, change the colour into the ones that are more romantic (example gold, red and shades of purple), and reduce the clatter. An untidy bedroom is usually a mood-killer. Candles can also be added to augment the mood.
Ø Turn your sexual fantasies into reality. On a boring and down day, plan to meet your partner at a café or somewhere private and comfortable. Ask him/her to tell you about their wildest sexual fantasy detail by detail. When he/she is done, I am sure you will not be able to wait to get him/her home, to fulfill that fantasy.
Ø Take time out from the kids and busy schedule. Take the kids to grandma’s or uncle’s and have the whole day to yourselves. Go to a spa together, or a hotel room. Just have fun and lots of sex.
